Good news
My car, or as my friend Mike VS refers to it, “the expensive German touring sedan,” is officially paid off as of this afternoon. Woo hoo! Of course, you could say the mortgage company now owns the car, since I paid it off with refinanced mortgage money, but let me have my delusions, OK? 🙂
Congratulations! Hey, you are saving on the check/envelope/stamp money at least. And if you default on the mortgage. at least you can live in your car.
Heard you had news – congrats on going through one more passage of adulthood debt.
And who is this John Kusch? I think he has some smart things to say whether you think you enter into a contract or not.
I had a conversation with a close friend last night. I said that if I was having trouble in some way and she was concerned, I would definitely want her to tell me – and I would listen because I trust her and know she cares. Sometimes you can’t see the forest for the trees and you need someone else with binoculars or just with the plain observation that might be more honest than your own eyes.
Having said that, you know I love you dearly. I only want you to be happy, and maybe to try something new to get there (a good therapist?) I have done that and found it to be amazingly helpful in directing one’s focus to what is important and fundamental. AND to helping you let go of the shit. 🙂
Sherri: Thanks, I think. 🙂 The best thing is, the mortgage interest is tax-deductible.
Izzy: Thanks, sweetheart. I love you too.