Unsolicited advice
Do you have a friend you haven’t spoken to in a while? Was it because of a fight you had with them? Do you even remember what the fight was about? If you do, do you really think what you were arguing about was worth your friendship? Think about that one hard. If you are co-workers and the conflict was over something at work, let me answer that last question for you: NO. If you’re just waiting for them to make the first move, since they were wrong and you were right, get off your butt. Right now. Friends are exceedingly hard to come by, and we let them go way too easily.
That is all.
i would generally agree, that if its somehting you want, then go for it, “get off your butt and make the move” – BUT, I’ve also had friends who’ve taken advantage of that, and if the realtionship never gets better, and you go thru these no-speaking bits for months, maybe it IS better to make that permanent – friends are indeed hard to come by, but friendship is a two-way street!
I agree most of the time.